Stories are not made they are found

In our work in the corporate world we are often asked to help our clients ‘come up’ with a story.  Especially our clients whom are about to embark on a new organisational change or have a new major project.  Once they have their key messages, they often give us a call to see if we can help them ‘come up’ with a story.

 

The term ‘come up with a story’ never sits comfortable with us for two reasons.  The first is that there is never one story.  The one story that explains to all your stakeholders what you do and why does not exist.  I am not going to go into this too much here because we have covered this before in previous posts such as The Yeti and the Brand Story.

 

The second reason is that you don’t ‘come up’ with stories …you find them.  Stories exist everywhere in your company, in your personal life, from your previous experiences and even the public arena.  You just need to find them and know how you can make them relate to your business message.

 

Recently I was reading an article on Stephen King in the Good Weekend magazine and he was explaining his process of writing his novels and he said ”I never think of stories as made things; I think of them as found things.  As if you pull them out of the ground”.

 

Could not have said it better ourselves.

 

Storytelling is Essential for Innovation

Business StorytellingIt was day 2 of the ci2011 Global Conference in Melbourne.  We had just presented our masterclass on storytelling the day before with some pretty positive feedback.

I was excited about what the next 2 days had in store for us with some of Australia’s and the worlds leading experts in their field.

One of the opening speakers was Professor Allan Fels AO and his words were music to my ears.

Professor Fels started talking about the power of storytelling and that “as humans we are hardwired to tell stories and hardwired to listen to stories”.

He said “70% of what we learn is through stories” and that “storytelling is essential for innovation“.  I withheld my urge to run up on stage and kiss the man …JUST!

But let’s look at Professor Fels two statements and why they ring so true.

“70% of what we learn is through stories”- Think of the last presentation you went to, or conference.  Was it the stories you remember?  Stories are how we make sense of the world, it is how we learn and it is what we remember.  Stories have the ability to not only help people understand what we are saying but they also allow people to remember what we have said and retell others without losing its meaning.  These are the three universal challenges as leaders, as teachers, as presenters and even as parents.

Do they understand what I am saying?

Will they remember what I am saying?

Can they share what I have said with others?

Stories will help you achieve traction on all those three challenges.

Storytelling is essentional for innovation” – During the conference we heard many views on what is essential for innovation, such as diversity, collaboration and culture of risk taking …and these are all important.  But once we have that culture of risk taking and once we have brought together a diverse group of minds in a collaborative environment it is the stories that are shared that will generate real innovation.  Why?   Because stories of what is possible sparks other stories of what is possible.  When people hear stories, they suspend judgement and stories when done right provide a glimpse of future possibilities and opportunities.

So thank you Professor Allan Fels for showing us the power of storytelling so succinctly.

Bruce Springsteen and Customer Service?

Business StorytellingEarlier this month we conducted a workshop in Melbourne and this is where Matt Ritchie, National Manager, Sales Strategy & Delivery at MLC Advice Product shared this story:
 

‘I was recently reading a magazine that featured an interview with Bruce  Springsteen.  Bruce Springsteen has been a musician and performer for over 20 years and has a tremendous reputation as a live act.  The interviewer asked him how he kept up his motivation to deliver night after night.  To which Springsteen replied “It was when I realised that, while for me, every night is a “Bruce Springsteen concert night” there are 1000′s of people in the audience, who have spent their money to see a Bruce Springsteen concert maybe for the first and only time in their lives.   They may only come to one Bruce Springsteen concert in their life and I want to give them the best ever Bruce Springsteen experience. And thats what keeps me going night after night”.  

Reading that reminded me of  us at work every day.  While we might take hundreds of calls, for  a customer who rings us, that might be the only contact they have with MLC, this might be the only “Bruce Springsteen concert” they go to.  Imagine the difference we can make if every time  our customers got the full Bruce Springsteen experience…’

The story struck a chord with everyone in the group and what a powerful and memorable frame for thinking about, and delivering customer service – the  Bruce Springsteen experience.

We are sharing this with you to illustrate that telling a personal story (and as you can see from this one it does not have to be the most revealing personal moment in your life) and linking it back to a business message can be really refreshing and powerful in business.

Why I do what I do? Business storytelling at its compelling best

Business Storytelling‘In July 1985, 5 year old Eve van Grafhorst was banned from attending her local kindergarten in Kincumber, NSW.  Eve was HIV positive and had contracted HIV from a blood transfusion when she was born.  This was the time of the grim reaper ads about AIDS and families in the town of Kincumber would cross the street to avoid Eve and her family.  Completely ostracised Eve and her family migrated to Hastings, New Zealand where I met her while working for the newspaper. 

One day in New Zealand Eve decided to raise money for AIDS awareness by selling hugs for $1.00 at the local mall. Everyone was giving her a hug and helping her raise money except for this one man who was watching from a distance.  I asked him if he planned to give her a hug and he told me ‘I am scared to give her a hug as I might catch something’.  I told Eve and she went over to the man and gently talked to him for nearly an hour at the end of which he gave her a hug and $1.00 and there wasn’t a dry eye in the mall.  When I saw how this little girl could work for an hour to raise $1.00 to make a difference I realised how much I could do to make a difference. 

This was my turning point and I decided to set up my company m.a.d.woman, committed to encouraging, inspiring and enabling people to make a positive difference in the environment, community and to the lives of people who need support.  Eve died peacefully aged 11 in her mother’s arms. She remains one of the most inspiration people in my life.’

Melina Schamroth

We recently had the privilege of hearing this story shared by Social entrepreneur Melina Schamroth, on why she set up her business.  We were also so delighted to learn that on on Friday night m.a.d.woman was named the National Winner of the 2011 Telstra Business Awards – Yellow Pages Social Responsibility category. GO Melina!

Fly like a butterfly – stories for storytelling

Business StorytellingLast week we ran a workshop for Many Rivers who provide micro financing predominantly for Indigenous Australians.  One of the participants was David Bagheri,  the National Development Manager for Many Rivers.  David is often in a position of explaining to their clients that Many Rivers can support them but cannot do the work for them.  This is the story David developed during our workshop, to communicate that message.

‘I remember a few years ago watching a documentary on butterflies.  That they start off as caterpillars and munch and crunch their way through leaves and finally cocoon themselves turning into butterflies.  What I didn’t know however was that the process of the butterfly breaking out of the cocoon is quite strenuous and can take a while to do so.  However, this process that is long and strenuous actually strengthens the butterfly’s wings.  This process allows the butterfly to have the strength in it wings to fly away from the cocoon.

 If someone decided to help the butterfly in the cocoon by removing the layers of the cocoon, the butterfly would be denied the opportunity to strengthen its wings. Once free from the cocoon the butterfly would fall to the ground and die.

 At Many Rivers we are here to guide you and support you but would never deny you the opportunity to strengthen your wings, so you too can fly like a butterfly.’

On hearing David’ final telling of  the story, I not only felt proud that I had played a small part in helping him develop such a wonderful story, I also thought how powerful that story would be for every parent to hear.   To remind us of the role we play in not denying our children the opportunity to strengthen their wings. A great story for storytelling.

Harry Potter’s magic

Business StorytellingI am out of the cupboard under the stairs, as a huge Harry Potter fan!  Whether you are a fan or not, Harry Potter is a ripping yarn and great if sometimes dark storytelling.

What is also interesting is the larger narrative that surrounds the books.  We all know how J.K. Rowling was a struggling single parent and how the book was rejected several times as publishers thought it too long and too slow for children.

Popular myth has it that Bloomsbury ‘s decision to publish Rowling’s book apparently owes much to Alice Newton, the eight-year-old daughter of one of the company’s executives, who was given the first chapter to review by her father and immediately demanded the next.  Although Bloomsbury agreed to publish the book, they also advised Rowling to get a day job, since she had little chance of making money in children’s books!  So glad she didn’t listen to them.

Just this morning when I was listening to the radio, Red Symonds was interviewing  Andy McCray. Andy a keen fan set up his website harrypotterfanzone when he was 11 years old.  Andy has  grown up with the stars of the Harry Potter series, and even had his site recognised by J.K.Rowling and  been invited onto the set several times. Of course he set the site up out of passion not expecting this largess.  Both J.K.Rowling and Andy are testimony to the power of  ‘Do what you love and love what you do’.  And I am personally looking forward to loving the movie tomorrow!

What is Business Storytelling? The Results

Business StorytellingAs you might be aware we define Business Storytelling as ‘storytelling with a business purpose and for business results’. So what results can a purposeful business story deliver?

Take for example a client of ours, Michael Brandt, who is a Regional Branch Manager at a bank.  Michael was responsible for 20 branches and at every branch, he had the same problem. His staff never seemed to meet their weekly targets of referring quality sales leads to the sales department.

He continuously talked to his team, and every time, they told him they knew what their targets were, and the importance of referring leads to the sales department. In fact, their targets were even linked to their annual performance bonus!

His staff told him that it was the one task they hated doing.  For two years, Michael had this problem, and by his own admission, had tried everything. His frustration was tangible and you can imagine how frustrating it must have been for his staff as well.

During one of our workshops, Michael constructed the following story:

When I was a kid, I hated Brussels sprouts. Every time Brussels sprouts was served at dinner, I always left the Brussels sprouts till the end (of course I always hoped I could get away without eating them).   My mother would never let me leave the table until I ate them.

One day, when Brussels sprouts was on the menu (yet again), I decided to eat them straight away so I could sit back and enjoy the rest of my meal. Do you think we could approach our quality sales leads targets like Brussels sprouts? We all know we can’t leave the table without eating them. Do you think we could get them out of the way early in the week and then sit back and enjoy the rest of our week?’

Two weeks later, we saw Michael at a follow up session where he told us he had been to 11 of his 20 Branches, and narrated his Brussels sprouts story. Michael advised us that in all 11 Branches, for the first time in two years, they had achieved their quality sales leads targets. We asked Michael if he had done anything different in those 11 branches (apart from telling the story) to which he replied ‘No, the story was the only thing I did differently’. He then told us that the term ‘Brussels sprouts’ had also become short-hand within the team for their sales leads: ‘How many Brussels sprouts have you eaten?’ ‘I have already eaten 3 today and it’s not even lunch time!’

Being consultants we took full credit of course for Michael’s success!  His story worked because everyone can relate to it, it taps into a universal human experience of being forced to eat your vegetables by your mother.  At a subtler level Michaels’ story carries a layer of empathy in it.  Through the story he is saying it is OK to hate stuff in life but that doesn’t mean you can get out of doing it.

Michael used ‘Brussels sprouts’ for 6 months as every time he did it gave him powerful results. This is an example of how storytelling can work for you, if done purposefully.  Here is another case study across an organisation of the results purposeful storytelling achieved.

The Slap

I am currently reading The Slap by Christos Tsiolkas which is about to become an eight part television series.  In the novel a man slaps a child who is not his own at a barbeque.The story is about the shocking after effects on eight individual people of that slap.  Last night I was reading the court scene where the mother compares the efforts of her lawyer, Margaret with the performance of the other lawyer.

“Margaret rose and repeated charges, coldly stating the ugliness of a man hitting a small child of three years of age…and then the giant lawyer rose and went in for the kill.  …He was good, he was very good.  What he did, what Margaret had not done, was tell a story.  Her earnestness could not compete with this gift.”

I was obviously delighted upon reading this and the reference to how powerful story is.   Especially when attempting to influence people.  The only word I didn’t like in that paragraph was ‘gift’.    It saddens me when people don’t attempt storytelling because they think they don’t have the ‘gift’.  In defeat they claim “I am not very good at it” or “I don’t have any stories”.

The truth is we all have stories and we can all get better at storytelling.  Yes some might be naturally better at it than others but like any other skill it can be taught and learnt and with practice and coaching we can all get better at it.

‘Business Storytelling’ – How to find stories that work.

Business StorytellingBusiness storytelling is not just about telling business stories.  The most effective stories are the ones that you find outside of work and then relate them back to a business issue.  In this video  Yamini explores how to find those every day ordinary stories in your own backyard that can be successfully used in business for extraordinary results.

We would love to know what you think.  Please leave a comment below.

 

What really made Julia Gillard cry?

Business StorytellingCrocodile tears or real?  Strategic or spontaneous?  Talk back radio and the Twittersphere are buzzing with comments on how Julia Gillard was moved to tears when she was paying tribute to the heroes of the recent natural disasters in Australia.

Many are saying the tears were not real.  If that is the case these same people would have to admit that she has turned into one brilliant actor and almost overnight.  Personally, I think the tears were real and genuine and  triggered by something that perhaps the PM herself was not even aware of.

When you read the full transcript of her speech which is 5 pages long, you will notice that Gillard became emotional at three specific points.

The first time, she became emotional and engaging was when she started to tell the the story of receiving the mud splattered Australian flag that was pulled out of Murphy’s Creek by four Australian Defence men .  She said ‘I was honoured when they gave it to me, it was muddy and it was soaking wet, and they did so because it was a powerful symbol for them’.

The flag had obviously become a powerful symbol for her too.  So when she started sharing that specific story, like anyone sharing a specific authentic story, she relived the emotion of the moment.

The second time was again when she narrated the courageous actions of 13-year-old Jordan Rice who told the rescuers to take his younger brother first.  Sadly before the rescuers could return, Jordon and his mother were taken by the flood.  Again the specifics of the story brought emotion to the story teller and the story listener.

The final point where Gillard choked back tears was again a very specific recall of  the efforts and words of  Mark Kempton who was part of a helicopter crew that winched 28 people to safety.  One women he winched to safety was a young pregnant woman who just seconds before the chopper arrived had had her young child wrenched from her arms by the flood waters.  Gillard choking back tears recalled that Mark said ‘I looked over my shoulder and saw her sitting on the floor of the aircraft and she was just devastated.  It was heartbreaking.”

Later in her speech the PM also recalls other acts of courage and there are many, but they are not specific, so while no less important, they did not result in an emotional reaction.

So no doubt the debate will continue after all she is a politician.  She has been accused of being ‘wooden’ in the past and not showing emotion.  The only difference I saw this time was she told stories, very powerful stories that not only had an impact on her but had an impact on many people that heard them.  As humans we listen to stories differently.  More politicians and leaders should understand that specific stories say more and provide more information than ‘political speak’ and ‘generalarities’, that say nothing.

We invite you to comment and share  a time when you have been moved by a story?

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