What’s your secret?

Sometimes someone can provide you an insight into life that stays with you forever.  And when you share that as a story, it can have an influence on countless other people.  Here’s an example of just that shared at one of our recent presentations.

Just yesterday I was sharing this with my husband and he said it must be really important to you as you still remember it, after all these years.  And he was right! I remember 25  ago I would visit corporate offices providing health checkups for their employees.  I was doing the  health check up for the CEO of large ASX listed company and was surprised at how healthy he was on every measure – blood pressure , stress etc.  I asked him ‘Please tell me your secret, apart from delegating everything to everyone else!”.  He laughed and said I do 3 things ‘Everyday I meditate, I play golf regularly and I completely trust the team of leaders who report to me’.  I was inspired by that and even today in my role I try and practice what he said.

Deborah Stuart, Director Community Services, Southern Health

Steve Jobs – More than just one story

We are strong believers that many stories make up your personal brand or company brand …not just one.  It is a subject I explored in a previous post ‘The Yeti and the Brand Story’ and was reminded of again when I read a recent Smart Company article on ‘The Five Best Steve Job Anecdotes’.

This article recounts five anecdotes from Steve Jobs that collectively show you the type of man he was.

Such as this one when Jobs was shown a prototype of the iPad and complained it was too big.

“After the engineers said they couldn’t make the device any smaller, Jobs took the iPad over to an aquarium, and promptly dropped it in. “These are air bubbles,” he said. “That means there’s space in there. Make it smaller.”

To this story that showed Job’s attention to detail:

“Google senior vice president of social business Vic Gundotra wrote recently on Google+ that once in 2008, he was sitting in a religious service on a Sunday when he received a call from an unmarked number. It was Jobs, leaving a message saying he had something urgent to discuss.  When he called him back, Jobs said the issue was urgent, and that he needed it addressed right away. In fact, he had already assigned someone on the task.

“I’ve been looking at the Google logo on the iPhone and I’m not happy with the icon. The second O in Google doesn’t have the right yellow gradient. It’s just wrong and I’m going to have Greg fix it tomorrow. Is that okay with you?”

To this story about the issues with Mobile Me which was Apple’s first venture into the cloud.

“It didn’t work properly and didn’t deliver as promised. Jobs was unimpressed. According to a Fortune article published earlier this year, Jobs gathered all the people responsible for Mobile Me at the company’s Town Hall, and told them they were “tarnishing Apple’s reputation”. He even said they “should hate each other for having let each other down”.

“Can anyone tell me what Mobile Me is supposed to do?” he asked. When someone answered, he said, “So why the f&*% doesn’t it do that?”

“Somewhere between the janitor and the CEO, reasons stop mattering,” he said.

Hearing one of those stories in isolation would give you a limited insight into Steve Job’s the man, Steve Job’s the professional CEO and Steve’s Job the entrepreneur.  It is the combination of not only these three stories but all the stories being shared that create the Steve Jobs brand. 

All of us and the world are diminished by his passing.

Bruce Springsteen and Customer Service?

Earlier this month we conducted a workshop in Melbourne and this is where Matt Ritchie, National Manager, Sales Strategy & Delivery at MLC Advice Product shared this story:
 

‘I was recently reading a magazine that featured an interview with Bruce  Springsteen.  Bruce Springsteen has been a musician and performer for over 20 years and has a tremendous reputation as a live act.  The interviewer asked him how he kept up his motivation to deliver night after night.  To which Springsteen replied “It was when I realised that, while for me, every night is a “Bruce Springsteen concert night” there are 1000′s of people in the audience, who have spent their money to see a Bruce Springsteen concert maybe for the first and only time in their lives.   They may only come to one Bruce Springsteen concert in their life and I want to give them the best ever Bruce Springsteen experience. And thats what keeps me going night after night”.  

Reading that reminded me of  us at work every day.  While we might take hundreds of calls, for  a customer who rings us, that might be the only contact they have with MLC, this might be the only “Bruce Springsteen concert” they go to.  Imagine the difference we can make if every time  our customers got the full Bruce Springsteen experience…’

The story struck a chord with everyone in the group and what a powerful and memorable frame for thinking about, and delivering customer service – the  Bruce Springsteen experience.

We are sharing this with you to illustrate that telling a personal story (and as you can see from this one it does not have to be the most revealing personal moment in your life) and linking it back to a business message can be really refreshing and powerful in business.

Why I do what I do? Business storytelling at its compelling best

‘In July 1985, 5 year old Eve van Grafhorst was banned from attending her local kindergarten in Kincumber, NSW.  Eve was HIV positive and had contracted HIV from a blood transfusion when she was born.  This was the time of the grim reaper ads about AIDS and families in the town of Kincumber would cross the street to avoid Eve and her family.  Completely ostracised Eve and her family migrated to Hastings, New Zealand where I met her while working for the newspaper. 

One day in New Zealand Eve decided to raise money for AIDS awareness by selling hugs for $1.00 at the local mall. Everyone was giving her a hug and helping her raise money except for this one man who was watching from a distance.  I asked him if he planned to give her a hug and he told me ‘I am scared to give her a hug as I might catch something’.  I told Eve and she went over to the man and gently talked to him for nearly an hour at the end of which he gave her a hug and $1.00 and there wasn’t a dry eye in the mall.  When I saw how this little girl could work for an hour to raise $1.00 to make a difference I realised how much I could do to make a difference. 

This was my turning point and I decided to set up my company m.a.d.woman, committed to encouraging, inspiring and enabling people to make a positive difference in the environment, community and to the lives of people who need support.  Eve died peacefully aged 11 in her mother’s arms. She remains one of the most inspiration people in my life.’

 Melina Schamroth

We recently had the privilege of hearing this story shared by Social entrepreneur Melina Schamroth, on why she set up her business.  We were also so delighted to learn that on on Friday night m.a.d.woman was named the National Winner of the 2011 Telstra Business Awards – Yellow Pages Social Responsibility category. GO Melina!

Fly like a butterfly – another example of business storytelling

Last week we ran a workshop for Many Rivers who provide micro financing predominantly for Indigenous Australians.  One of the participants was David Bagheri,  the National Development Manager for Many Rivers.  David is often in a position of explaining to their clients that Many Rivers can support them but cannot do the work for them.  This is the story David developed during our workshop, to communicate that message.

‘I remember a few years ago watching a documentary on butterflies.  That they start off as caterpillars and munch and crunch their way through leaves and finally cocoon themselves turning into butterflies.  What I didn’t know however was that the process of the butterfly breaking out of the cocoon is quite strenuous and can take a while to do so.  However, this process that is long and strenuous actually strengthens the butterfly’s wings.  This process allows the butterfly to have the strength in it wings to fly away from the cocoon.

 If someone decided to help the butterfly in the cocoon by removing the layers of the cocoon, the butterfly would be denied the opportunity to strengthen its wings. Once free from the cocoon the butterfly would fall to the ground and die.

 At Many Rivers we are here to guide you and support you but would never deny you the opportunity to strengthen your wings, so you too can fly like a butterfly.’

On hearing David’ final telling of  the story, I not only felt proud that I had played a small part in helping him develop such a wonderful story, I also thought how powerful that story would be for every parent to hear.   To remind us of the role we play in not denying our children the opportunity to strengthen their wings.

Grade 5 and Brussels Sprouts

Recently I was asked to come and talk to my daughter’s Grade 5 class about my career path.  Last time I visited the class was for a ‘Are you smarter than a 5th Grader?’ competition where my lack of knowledge about Antartica and Justin Beiber was there for all to see.  Of course lack of knowledge on Justin Beiber is considered a ‘good thing’ in most adult circles!

This time I was asked some intriguing and insightful questions from ‘What has been your biggest regret?’, ‘Have you ever been sacked?’ and ‘If you could do any job in the world what would it be?’

After explaining what I did they all asked for an example of a story.  So I shared with them our old favourite brussels sprouts, that Yamini wrote about in the previous post.  What I noticed first was when I started with ‘When I was a kid I hated brussels sprouts’, there was no flicker of recognition.  Most kids these days have never eaten brussels sprouts or do not know what they are.  Obviously a result from a whole generation being forced to eat them and then refusing to force that on their own children.

So even though they didn’t know what brussels sprouts were, they still got the message that sometimes there are things that we don’t like doing but we just need to do it.

The next day, my daughter informed me that they now have ‘brussels sprouts’ time at school where they have to finish off all the work they have been putting off. 

Perhaps we all need to build in a little bit of ‘brussels sprouts’ time, into our day!

What is Business Storytelling? The Results

As you might be aware we define Business Storytelling as ‘storytelling with a business purpose and for business results’. So what results can a purposeful business story deliver?

Take for example a client of ours, Michael Brandt, who is a Regional Branch Manager at a bank.  Michael was responsible for 20 branches and at every branch, he had the same problem. His staff never seemed to meet their weekly targets of referring quality sales leads to the sales department.

He continuously talked to his team, and every time, they told him they knew what their targets were, and the importance of referring leads to the sales department. In fact, their targets were even linked to their annual performance bonus!

His staff told him that it was the one task they hated doing.  For two years, Michael had this problem, and by his own admission, had tried everything. His frustration was tangible and you can imagine how frustrating it must have been for his staff as well.

During one of our workshops, Michael constructed the following story:

When I was a kid, I hated Brussels sprouts. Every time Brussels sprouts was served at dinner, I always left the Brussels sprouts till the end (of course I always hoped I could get away without eating them).   My mother would never let me leave the table until I ate them.

One day, when Brussels sprouts was on the menu (yet again), I decided to eat them straight away so I could sit back and enjoy the rest of my meal. Do you think we could approach our quality sales leads targets like Brussels sprouts? We all know we can’t leave the table without eating them. Do you think we could get them out of the way early in the week and then sit back and enjoy the rest of our week?’

Two weeks later, we saw Michael at a follow up session where he told us he had been to 11 of his 20 Branches, and narrated his Brussels sprouts story. Michael advised us that in all 11 Branches, for the first time in two years, they had achieved their quality sales leads targets. We asked Michael if he had done anything different in those 11 branches (apart from telling the story) to which he replied ‘No, the story was the only thing I did differently’. He then told us that the term ‘Brussels sprouts’ had also become short-hand within the team for their sales leads: ‘How many Brussels sprouts have you eaten?’ ‘I have already eaten 3 today and it’s not even lunch time!’

Being consultants we took full credit of course for Michael’s success!  His story worked because everyone can relate to it, it taps into a universal human experience of being forced to eat your vegetables by your mother.  At a subtler level Michaels’ story carries a layer of empathy in it.  Through the story he is saying it is OK to hate stuff in life but that doesn’t mean you can get out of doing it.

Michael used ‘Brussels sprouts’ for 6 months as every time he did it gave him powerful results. This is an example of how storytelling can work for you, if done purposefully.  Here is another case study across an organisation of the results purposeful storytelling achieved.

Dogs in sinks AKA a new customer service story

I am on the market for a laundry sink.  Recently we spotted a sink we both liked but my husband who has the spatial skill set in the family was uncertain if our dog Ace could fit in it.  No please do not ring the RSPCA yet, but be warned a moment of TMI (Too Much Information) follows.

We wash our dog Ace, in our laundry sink.  After measuring the sink and then returning home to measure our dog we were still unsure.  The next time we were the store we again agonised over the sink.  This time a salesperson overheard us and interjected to say ‘ We want to be sure you will be happy with your sink, so please bring your dog in’.  So early on Monday morning I took a freshly brushed for the occassion Ace to the showroom and trotted with him inside.  The assistant held Ace while I took a photo to email my husband and viola – perfect sink, and perfect fit for our dog, the true end customer.  Another salesperson who was there said as a joke ‘Now I have seen everything!’.

Now I have the perfect sink for my dog and a perfect customer service story to share in business to boot..my cup runneth over!

Have you got an ace customer service story? Please comment.

‘Business Storytelling’ The most important thing to remember

A facilitator launched into a workshop with this story:

“Last week I watched my wife preparing a pot roast. As I watched she cut off one end of the roast and set it aside. I Asked her why she did this. She answered, “Because my mother always cut off the end of roast.”  I was still confused so I went to my mother-in-law and asked the same question. She said. “Because my mother always did it that way!” I still thought it was strange and so I went to my wife’s grandmother and asked her about this strange family practice. She just laughed and said, ”I always cut off the end of the roast because I didn’t have a pan big enough the hold roast.” Some traditions are like that!  Let’s look at what we do and why we do it that way.”

All the participants connected with the story and the message.  The next day another facilitator arrived and said ‘I want to share this parable with you’ and repeated the same story!  Much to the shock of all the participants.  Needless to say the  credibility of the previous facilitator was shot to pieces…because he had passed off  this parable as his own.

One of the participant’s shared this whole experience with us adding ‘We were so angry and didn’t care any more about the valuable stuff that we had learnt in the workshop any more.  All we could remember was he had lied to us by saying this had happened to him when clearly it was a well known story.  We started to wonder what else he had said was not true.’

If a story is not your own, the simplest yet most important storytelling technique is to always credit your stories.   Credit your stories and stay credible.  This is the most important tip for business storytelling.

Where have you seen authentic or inauthentic storytelling?  Please share your comments with us.

“Storytelling Techniques” – Negative stories have their limits

Negative stories in business have a purpose and also  have limitations.  We came across an example last week that demonstrates both these points perfectly.  Last week there was a leaked email doing the rounds from Nokia CEO Stephen Elop.

The email was a prelude to Nokia’s strategy announcement on Friday 11th February.  But Elop’s  initial email to employees is worth analysis from a negative story perspective. 

The email starts with a well know story about  the burning platform.

There is a pertinent story about a man who was working on an oil platform in the North Sea. He woke up one night from a loud explosion, which suddenly set his entire oil platform on fire. In mere moments, he was surrounded by flames. Through the smoke and heat, he barely made his way out of the chaos to the platform’s edge. When he looked down over the edge, all he could see were the dark, cold, foreboding Atlantic waters.

As the fire approached him, the man had mere seconds to react. He could stand on the platform, and inevitably be consumed by the burning flames. Or, he could plunge 30 meters in to the freezing waters. The man was standing upon a “burning platform,” and he needed to make a choice.

He decided to jump. It was unexpected. In ordinary circumstances, the man would never consider plunging into icy waters. But these were not ordinary times – his platform was on fire. The man survived the fall and the waters. After he was rescued, he noted that a “burning platform” caused a radical change in his behaviour.

We too, are standing on a “burning platform,” and we must decide how we are going to change our behaviour.”

This is a true story and was the origin of the term ‘burning platform’.  Starting the email with this negative story serves a specific purpose.  It raises the awareness of a problem.  If your employees or your customers are not aware there is a problem then a negative story can shock them into the realisation that there is one.    That is the purpose of a negative story.  The limitations of a negative story however is that it will not necessarily change behaviour.  So when Elop concludes the story with  ‘We too, are standing on a “burning platform,” and we must decide how we are going to change our behaviour.’  While that may be the case, the negative burning platform story will not achieve the change of behaviour.

Why not? As conventional wisdom says that crisis is a powerful motivator for change.

John Kotter, Harvard Business School professor and award-winning author has hit on a crucial insight . “Behavior change happens mostly by speaking to people’s feelings,”  he says. “This is true even in organizations that are very focused on analysis and quantitative measurement, even among people who think of themselves as smart in an MBA sense. In highly successful change efforts, people find ways to help others see the problems or solutions in ways that influence emotions, not just thought.”

Sharing his own expereinces  Kotter,  states ‘We went out looking for stories of successful change because I concluded years ago that people need more positive examples than they need negative ones. People are seeing too much negative stuff, and they know it. They can all give you 53 negative stories. What people need are positive examples of what works’.

I then read the rest of the Nokia email to see if a positive story would appear …but it didn’t.  The crux of the email was stating dooming fact after dooming fact with a continual reference to the burning platform.  For example,

 ”I have learned that we are standing on a burning platform.  And, we have more than one explosion – we have multiple points of scorching heat that are fuelling a blazing fire around us. ” 

There is an attempt right at the end to motivate and inspire through positivity but it falls well short of achieving that….

“The burning platform, upon which the man found himself, caused the man to shift his behaviour, and take a bold and brave step into an uncertain future. He was able to tell his story.  Now, we have a great opportunity to do the same.”  Nokia did announce their new strategy a few days after this email and reading through everything available on the web I failed to see a positive story used to engage people in the new strategy.  Perhaps positive stories are being used internally.  

So just to recap, it is important to understand that negative stories serve a very specific purpose and that is to raise awareness of  a problem.  Their limitation is that they will not change behaviour, also demonstrated via  WorkSafes use of story .  To change behaviour you need to quickly move on from the negative story and start sharing positive stories …and lots of them.

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